Is it a problem for you? Although I am pleased if any of the information on this site helps anyone, I wouldn't take on the job of making someone else clean up their house. My house isn't messy any more. My bro (48 yrs old) has long term mental health issues and lives in squalor. She has avoided letting either one of us in the house for over 8 years. She didn’t show up for work on Sunday so the nurses where she worked went to check on her and saw her car in the driveway but my Mom would not answer the door.
Her sister has a similar relationship with the dad …
He is in the same home Dad lived in before he died. I had to seek professional help to deal with the guilt of letting go of my care for them since they disreguard my advice and I refuse to visit while my filthy ,abusive, irresponsible sister lives there. My parent's also live in filth and allowed my 53yo sister to move in. The shortest … My experience was of dealing with my own problem. Unfollow. The Doctor Weighs In is a trusted source for quality, evidence-based stories about health, healthcare, and innovation. He dropped out of high school at 16, and hasn't done anything since. ... My brother lives with her, and has a few cats of his own inside his small bedroom.
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Share she refuses to shower or wash her hair and she doesn't have clean clothing she puts on soiled and wrinkled clothing. My brother and I received a call on Sunday March, 26th that they found our Mother dead in her home. Squalor is a confronting word. I spent much time and energy trying to hide the true state of my house - clutter and mess - from people. Brother living in squalor- trying to help (20 Posts) Add message | Report.
My sister is a secret hoarder. Mom and brother living in absolute squalor, no idea what to do.
whataboutbob Mon 27-Nov-17 20:54:16. My friend is having problems caring for her sister with dementia who is living in squalor and is filthy. she is a hoarder of the first degree. Aged 40, she lives in a flat that is overrun by things she is unable to throw away. Suggestions? I cleaned up my own house, not someone else's. I worked to change how I thought about, and kept, my house. I'm Pigpen and I used to live in squalor.